Is he still interested?

[irdk]

So a few months back (1 march) I matched with a guy on tinder and we started chatting. A month later we started using snapchat and follow eachother on instagram. After two weeks on streak (on snapchat) he told me he could come visit me (we live two hours away from eachother), sadly I had already made other plans that I didn't want to cancel. After three weeks he invited me to meet him at a café three hours away from my home, though I couldn't go see him 'cause it was such short notice and I had already made plans. After around a 25 days streak we had had a really long conversation about me screwing up a trip somewhere and him playing soccer and he told me I was very cute, funny, sexy, smart, had good values and it was nice talking to a girl who knew who she was and what she stood up for. After a 4 week streak on snapchat it was a lot of dirty "missunderstandings". On the 50th day of our streak on snapchat there were a lot of steamy photos send back and forward.

So we had a streak until most recently at 101 days. We have snaped with eachother a lot and talked about me visiting him. On the 90th day I knew I was going to be in his neighbourhood so I told him 4 days before. He said he couldn't because he had to babysit his littlesister (we both live at home). I told him he could let me know if there was any time for us to meet up.

Now here's the thing, the streak has ended. And I don't really have a problem with that. But he has distended himself from me, still snaping me at least 5 times a week but not with the same intensity and curiosity. Now I don't have feelings for him or anything so I wouldn't mind if he stopped being interested in me, it's just so confusing. I so badly just want to ask him, "are you still interested", but it feels like it kind of can ruin everything for me.

So my question is: even though he has distended himself a little bit and we don't have the same kind of conversations or fun exchange of photos with eachother, is he still interested? And if not, why is he still chatting with me?

[melancholia]

It doesn't sound like it. After so many attempts to get together with each time ending in failure, it's hard to stay interested in someone purely via social media. Move on and find someone closer to you whom you can get together with sooner. There's plenty of other people to exchange steamy pics with and it sounds like he's lost interest.