So, to start- I am married and I would never cheat on my husband! I love him more than anything. However, lately I have found myself so attracted to my coworker- and I feel so guilty and as if I have no control over my feelings! I don't know what to do here...
There is a guy I work with who I've always considered a work friend- we'd chat here and there and joke around with one another. For about the last 2 weeks something has changed- I find myself incredibly attracted to him. I think he feels the same...(he's married as well) when we talk it seems like we linger, like we just don't want to stop talking with one another. He'll also bump his arm into mine, kick my foot with his, little things like that. He also makes crazy intense eye contact with me- something about the way he looks at me made me sure he MUST feel this attraction I feel!
I might have crossed the line the other night. I had been drinking and I let on that I had a sex dream about him. He admitted that he's had these same thoughts about me even though he knows he shouldn't. I feel awful, I've tried SO hard to get this guy off my mind and I can't! He's all I can think about sometimes. This has never happened to me and I feel so lost.
I'm just looking for any advice on what to do or how to get over this. Please no negative comments, I'm already beating myself up over this constantly