Hi, first post and tbh, I never thought I'd get to the point of needing help!
Il try and keep it short and sweet
I've been with my girlfriend / fiancee for over nine years.
We get on very well, we don't argue, we laugh, we go out, I really don't have a negative apart from little things which are seperate to the relationship!
I went out Saturday and I got chatted up by a gorgeous girl, we chatted, had a laugh, we work at the same place (huge place)
She gave me her number and told me to ring her, this is a first for me tbh as I don't go out on the pull as it where
Now, I can't help but wonder what it would be like to start again, dating, the start of relationship feelings, all the lovey Dovey stuff.
Not with this girl just any girl in general.
I do also have two kids and I have the feeling it's the kids which are keeping me here, although I haven't up until now.
My girlfriend is aware of how I feel and she is so calm it's concerning, she sas she hasn't had any of these feelings.
Has this relationship lost its spark?
Is it just a crush type of thing.
Have I changed (new job and increase in wages sees me wanting different things)
I'm lost at the minute!
Thanks