Whilst I realise I may sound like a sexist pig here.. I'm going to ask anyway.
I am of the opinion that there is no reason why a perfectly healthy(as a man can be anyway! hehe) could not work.
I am a woman(obviously) and i work and am completely self sufficient... I pay all my own bills etc... and wouldn't expect to rely on any man to provide for me... but..
Am I wrong to think it is completely unacceptable for a man not to work or be actively looking for a job??
A man who works... to me... is attractive... a man that doesn't... and can't be bothered to... no matter how handsome/ sexy/ kind he is... simply isn't!
Am I behind the times perhaps??