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    New love interest

    Hi Everyone
    I am new to this I need some advice because I can not talk to any of my friends. I am 26 I am married I am happily married. Four weeks ago I woke up and realised I had fallen for my male friend that I hang out with often. We rescue dogs together and I really enjoy his company. It's fun we hang out together. I know him previously from high school we met again 5 months ago through the rescue group. I don't want to ruin our friendship because I really respect it. I have felt so happy and like a new person lately I told my husband how I felt and he is ok with it we are very honest and open with each other. I am having stonger feelings as each day goes by it is becoming quite intense how I feel. I am trying my best to control it it seems to be taking over my day to day. I feel soo good and happy. I don't regret getting married I just feel I will miss out because I am married.

    I don't know what to do please help with some advice. Xo

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    Hi there !

    Whatever you say to him that you wouldnt say in front of your husband is emotional cheating. Also If your husband sh you - do you love me? Would you be able to say yes?
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

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    Would your husband be ok with an open marriage?
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    Hi
    I am very open with my husband he is ok with it he says that I am experiencing a different kind of love with my friend. My husband has met him a few times and he thinks he is a nice guy. I think he would be ok with an open relationship its quite refreshing about how open we are with one another.

    I am not sure if my friend likes me back we all went out with friends the other night. My husband drove and I grabbed my friends hand we both put our fingers in and held a tight grip then he let go.

    We both made eye contact throughout the night and he told my husband that I do everything deeply, passionately and intensly he also asked him if the next time we hang out if my husband wants to come he said no its ok you guys make a good team and you mesh well. My husband told me his eyes lit up.

    What do you make of that?

    I made a comment about how I think he is hot. I hope I haven't ruined the friendship we haven't spoken much this week only indirectly liking each others social media posts.
    I don't want to message first

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