Relationship and exes

[Irelle]

Hello guys,
Lately, more and more, I started to feel disgust about the idea/fact, that before me, there were other people well...inside of my girlfriend. I feel really sad. I do not know why suddenly now, but I do know, that only by thinking that other men "marked" her from the in-, and outside, make me wanna vomit.
I would like to discuss this and hear others people (both male and female) opinion.
Maybe some ideas, maybe how to get rid of those thoughts etc?

[pcmaster]

Just relax man. Penis shape is perfect to pump out previous male sperm out of vagina.

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But to be honest its just skin and she washes it. Its not like you touched poo with your hand and smell stayed for the rest of your life. In fact all cells in body changes several times during life. So its all in your head. Maybe sex therapist can help. But really you have to get over it. Try to talk with her about it.

[JimBo90]

Yeah, what the others said. If this woman is younger than 40 and hasn't had a child her vagina will return to normal less than 48 hours after intimacy. When folks say "tomorrow's a new day", that applies to everything including this woman's past sexual experiences. If she's yours she's yours and that's what matters now.

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To add, its human nature to forget about what sexual experiences are like from the past, we forget. An ex girlfriend once said to me that after only a month without sex she feels like she's never had it, it's all the stars fg that comes with it, emotions and intensity of touch, even just touching the face, everything becomes heightened.

Seriously dude, if you went and had sex with other women you'd understand how irrelevant it is. Relationships are so much more than just sex, and sex should be so much more than just a physical interaction.

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Lmao. PC master was joking about the previous sperm remaining. It doesn't. Most women are really safe anyhow, they prefer to take proper anti-pregnancy precautions

[debbielady]

Talk to your girlfriend about it. She will tell you that you have nothing to feel disgusted by.

If this woman is younger than 40 and hasn't had a child her vagina will return to normal less than 48 hours after intimacy.

^100% true, but it takes less than 24 hours.

To add, its human nature to forget about what sexual experiences are like from the past, we forget. An ex girlfriend once said to me that after only a month without sex she feels like she's never had it, it's all the stars fg that comes with it, emotions and intensity of touch, even just touching the face, everything becomes heightened.

^also 100% true. Personally I have not had sex in two months. I can barely remember what it is like. If it was to happen tomorrow it would hands down feel like a first time experience, with all senses heightened to the extreme.

[pcmaster]

Lmao. PC master was joking about the previous sperm remaining. It doesn't. Most women are really safe anyhow, they prefer to take proper anti-pregnancy precautions

Thats the problem now. I would like to leave my sperm in a girl. But they are so afraid of getting pregnant, its a real problem for me If I want to leave a mark in her - fill her up. And all this time I watched porn and assumed creampies are normal in everyday life. But in reality girls are afraid of sperm anywhere near their vaginas.

Maybe thats why Im still a virgin cause didnt agreed to sex with condom when I had the chance.