Main reason why I think he suffers from some type of depression, even if it's mild, is that there will be one or two weeks a month where he'll just shut down, not do anything for himself, and just in general more down and sad. I'll ask him what is wrong, and he just says that he is in a weird mood but he's just going to get through this. I wouldn't think much of this if this happened once or twice, but this is every month for days on end.
It is starting to worry me, so when I saw him today after not seeing him for a few days, I noticed that he was in one of these moods. I tried talking to him about it and said that I think it would be a good idea for him to go see a therapist or a psychiatrist because it might help him.
He said that he has thought about it, but it's 1. too expensive, 2. he doesn't want to be medicated, and 3. If he asks anybody for recommendations for a "good" therapist, they'll know that something is wrong and he doesn't want people to ask questions.
My brother and father both suffer from depression, so I know how it can be debilitating. I would never force S/O to go to therapy, but I also want to support him so he knows he's not alone.
How can I support my S/O without making him feel like I am forcing him to go to therapy?