So thank you for reading first off. Been "friends" with D for about 15 years been romantically interested the whole time. Been here for the whole kit and kaboodle. Been her rock thru 2 failed relationships and one failed marriage. Around 10 years ago we became intimate which has been on and off for the years. When in need either emotionality financially or physically contacts me.. as of now living with me. Have approached a couple times about establishing a relationship which she never truly answers.. always says she needs to work on stuff in her head first. What's best way to proceed? Any advice be great !! And if need any more info please just ask. Thank you !!!