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    Does my best guy friend have feelings for me?

    So I have my best friend and we're extremely close for about a year now. I'll call him Jake. Jake and I call eachother mr and mrs. wildcard, because we like to go on spontaneous trips to neighboring cities getting drunk and exploring together. We are both the most out going people in room and attract a lot of attention. So I never thought anything of us, until one night this past summer, we were on one of our trips and I had kissed one of his best friends. Which never seemed like an issue, because normally we are each others wing man/women. And one jakes friends told me he was drunk and upset about it. Months later, I was face timing him after he had left a party at my house and was being suggestive that he should come back and sleep over my house. He quickly shut me down and the next day pulled me aside and told me how we could never hook up since he loves me so much and I'm his best friend. Which I'm okay with. I have so much love for him, I ooze admiration for him. His success is mine and vice versa. We are there for one another so unconditionally I've ever experienced a love like this before with any person before. Where there are no differences between us. He pulls aside every time we're together and makes the whole world stop without fail by kissing me on my cheek and telling me how much loves me and how lucky he is to have me in his life. I feel like I've found my soulmate in life, regardless under what circumstances. We are the compliment version of the other. And we both profound our love for one another every time. And I'm just kind of confused. So what do you guys think, has he friend zoned me? Are we actually just insanely close friends

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    insanely close friends it appears.
    remember that soulmates does not equate to "lifelong romantic partners". soulmates can be platonic friends.

    if he had more for you or romance was in the cards - he would have not scolded you about "we can never hook up b/c we're best friends." that would never happen with somebody romantically into you.

    so yes.. it appears it's best friends only.

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