My boyfriend and I are 19 and 17 respectively, we met last July on a training course and became a couple in September 2016. He has ADHD and Tourette's, and I suffer from low moods at the best of times, which all adds to the complications. We were fine, couple arguments here and there, then everything changed and people began to tell me he was controlling and emotionally blackmailing, which I never noticed at first. Whenever I suffered from a low mood we would argue and later on I would be made out to be the "bad guy", even though I spent the previous few hours crying my heart out. I first noticed things wasn't right when I stopped eating properly and suffered from insomnia, which all started after a really bad argument with my boyfriend. The emotional blackmail is getting worse and worse and all of this is having a knock on effect on my schoolwork and my health. My grades dropped from an A to a U, my skin was peeling due to all the stress and my weight rocketed due to binge eating. I may sound like a totally crazy teenager here, but could ask the arguments and stuff with my boyfriend be causing depression? Please help!