so this guy and I chatted online for over a year (two different states)... we finally met up after being in the same state and of course the chemistry was there (which I suppose one always hopes for but is not always guaranteed) and we met up three nights in the two weeks I was there (I wasn't modest and had two sleepovers, I supposed waiting always keeps them a little more serious about you :/ )
fast forward, I left the state early due to the death of a family member and have been emotional. He told me not to disappear as he's a good listener... challenge is tho he doesn't call and responds to text but being that we don't really have any sort of foundation I suppose I can't expect more. He says nice things like he wasn't expecting to form a bond like this, how I'm a wonderful person bla bla bla
last night I texted and never heard back and of course am dramatic and texted again today and he called me impatient and said he would respond later. he's pretty busy with work and his extra curricular outdoor activities.
In writing and reading this, it seems the signs are clear that I need to just let it be what it is and nothing more. Just the question is why do guys bother to write such nice things about wishing we lived closed, how amazing we are as women and words that express so much sweetness that it makes us women think they really are in it for more. I suppose if he was he'd be calling every day. but long distance doesn't work. just the extremely beautiful words written to make my heart beat seem out of line with his actions . I guess the steps forward are to leave him the f alone. no one wants to be seen as annoying.
thanks in advance