if i am not mistaken: you do not love each other
you have a crush on each other
you desire each other
maddly attractive and seductive
And I can not imagine a scenario where both of you would stay well if you continue what you do.
Either you go full time and be together and work it out.
Or you stay away from each other for good
or you continue to cheat on people who love you until either of your relationship turns sour - or until one of you gets mad with longing.
Those are the only scenarios i can think of.
And i only like the first two. But you can chose for yourself.
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.