you know i think its funny that all the "ask a man" questions really belong to the ask a woman subforum
but also vice versa.
And i dont think you can generalise this.
People have so many different understandings about the "love" concept which alone means that it is difficult.
We dont know if you are talking about a real crush
or the love to a sister or a mother
or if you talk about the real love that will grow between two intimate persons in a relationship over time
If you are talking about the latter kind of love:
He is happy for her being happy.
If that meant that she is off with someone else then he would fight for her but let her go eventually, so she has the best chance to lead the most fullfilling life.
But most people dont mean that kind of love.
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.