Into me or not?

[Lovelife2017]

I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that event, I meet a guy, dance w/him, exchange numbers and he falls off the face of the earth. Not this one lol. Although he lives a couple hours drive away from me, we did talk about starting something more serious after a little time. I saw him yesterday at the event (I was working it, its a weekend thing) and we went out for coffee. We talked for hours. He told me he was very busy and usually during the day he cannot have his phone on him He doesn't text much, but has replied to mine. A couple times he just drops out of the convo, one time he told me his phone died. Could he be taking it slow? I don't trust anything a guy says anymore above his actions cause my long distance ex always told me he loved me, but he never made an effort to keep good contact. After all he waited for me for 2 hours to have coffee w/me despite having to drive home for 2 hours. I guess maybe guys haven't really been that nice to me, it feels good to have someone care.

[littleangel]

Wow, that sounds similar to what I'm going through, except the guy is too far away to meet up with. He says the same things you mentioned, his phone died or he's busy a lot. Sometimes he tells me he lost his signal. You need to be careful too, if you're vulnerable he could be playing off that, if not, then you got one of the rare ones.