depends if she is having sex with them?^^
and depends if she is sending you a text so you dont worry.
but i think that is not the real problem here
the problem is that you are missing information and that you both have missing or misleading communication in your relationship.
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.