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    girl im talking to sort of

    Well me and this girl met on this dating app, i wasnt who i said i was at 1st (i basically catfished her) she did not know it for 2 weeks. Until she made me reveal who i was, she told me she was cool with it at 1st. She wanted to see the real me. I did not trust her at 1st, she wanted me to trust her. I told her to give it some time, then she agreed.
    For the next week or so we started to text regularly, until she wanted to see a body pic. so i gave her a body pic. Then a week later she wanted to see a face picture and so i sent it. She seemed fine with it.
    For a whole month her text seem to drastically change, she wasnt acting herself. Like she was before. Then a day later she did not bother texting me, i confronted her about it. she started to act rude and say she was busy, Then she wanted to stop talking to me. Telling me to go find someone else to talk to. So i left her alone. then a day or so later she started to text me saying she was sorry and how bad she felt. So far things havent changed like how it was supposed to.

    please read carefully. she wanted to continue talking to me even though i decieved her. So after she felt bad why did she even bother to text me?

    Also be considerate, dont lecture me why catfishing is bad

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    im being considerate
    im considering your long term success

    catfishing is not only bad for the girl
    its bad for you.
    What a chance do you stand if you lie to them on the net in the real life? none. It is not only bad behaviour
    its just plain useless

    speculating about reasons of the girl doesnt get you anywhere.
    if you want success with women then be who you are.
    If that is not good enough - or you arent happy with it anyways then CHANGE who you are. Work on yourself.
    You got a shitty face? no problem - its not no.1 criteria for most girls
    everything else you can change if you want to.

    Why or why not she was still speaking to you or not is irrelevant. Relevant is your success.
    And the way you are going about it is just plainly not working (and cant work anyhow).
    If your approach is continually not working
    change it.

    its not easy - but its simple enough.
    If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
    I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
    If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.

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