Hi I am Pippa. I have a boyfriend and we have a close male friend who flirts constantly with me. For ages I thought he hated me because of how he would act around me sometimes. He would insult me and put me down then the next minute would be flirting. We are never alone together. Last week we got drunk and he kissed me twice outside and was saying we both love you and was being really sweet and tender with his arms on my face and around me. Unfortunately i was too light headed and dizzy to push him off but i know my lips did not move (does that count as cheating?). He claims to not remember trying it on but funny he says he remembers telling us other things. Before this happened we were going to do an activity helping the community but on Sunday i asked if he wanted to still do it and he said he had forgotten about work that day. I've tried to arrange to meet up alone to talk about it but he won't answer. We saw each other twice since it happened and things have been different in a good way and we are much more relaxed around each other and we keep making eye contact. He spoke to my boyfriend when i wasn't around giving me compliments and saying nice thing's. Now my boyfriend thinks he wants me also but i don't know and I'm so confused as to what it meant and how i feel. He also said under the influence of alcohol that my best features are my eyes and personality but could this be the alcohol or did he mean it? He is a shy guy.