i need help with this girl idk what to do, im a guy

[pipacho12]

first of all, please read the entire topic, i really need your help
hi, well, heres the thing, im a guy, 17 yo, and im going to graduate from school this year, that means, this is my last year of school, then college.
theres this girl, sofia, shes 15 yo, going to 16 on july, and i really like her. lets say shes junior and im senior. we've been "exchanging" gazes since the past year, but nothing happened, i didnt even talk to her, i wanted too, but i didnt have the balls to do it.so, i have a female friend, called lucy, shes friend of sofia, (this happened the past year) so i told lucy if she could do a meeting with my gang and hers, and invite sofia, so i can get to know her, but she refused, and sofia didnt want to go.
i made the mistake of telling lucy i like sofia, she can keep a secret, so i bet she already told sofia about it. :facepalm:
sofia is, according to lucy, smart, very smart, shes like, um, how can i say it, "innocent", i mean that she doesnt like parties, she doesnt drink or smoke, shes very focused on studying, she wants to study medicine (so do i), she has 100 followers on instagram, well you know, basically the "perfect" girl (at least for me)
about me, well, im kind of shy with girls, im not a very talkative person, lets say i grew up having only male friends, i live near a sort of ghetto. i have 5 friends, theyre my best, i tend to think very much, like what kind of things i do, what would happen if i do this or that, you know, that things. i do drink but i dont get drunk, i dont smoke, and i have like 30 followers on instagram (yep, the "weird" guy). i like computers and technology, im a geek i guess.
physically, i have brown skin, brown eyes, curly hair, im tall, thin, i dont have pimples on my face (i dont have much)
and sofia, well, shes white, have green eyes ( i really like her eyes, theyre just beautiful), not so tall, black, long hair ( a little curly), and a beautiful smile.
oh, and i can play the piano and (im not pretty sure) she plays the guitar. (btw i can play in the piano a song she likes)
anyways, since i saw her, damn, i fell in love so hard. i even started to imagine our first date, the place of this, time, day (yes, i know, i sound like a teenage girl that her crush is the bad and tough guy, but it is what it is). or like, take her to a walk, go to the cinema, be with her when she get needs me, hug her, go to my roof and talk and laugh of everything while watching the moon, look her at the eyes, get hypnotized by them and tell her i love you, im glad i found ya.
i just want to feel what its iike to be loved ,and yes, i have a family that alrealdy loves me but, well, you get me, like loved by a non family member i guess.
im not sure, but i think that she likes me, but im not pretty sure about it.
i was thinking about start slow with her, like start being friends, then bff and then a couple. but, due to the limited time that i have, i was thinking in just go to the point, like asking her "hey wanna date me?", but i dont really know what to do
i could ask her by facebook or instagram, through a msg, but i prefer doing it in person.
after all this, what should i do? just go to the point? wait some more and see what happens? im really confused, cause some says love comes when you least expect it, like in an accident, you know, when you run into her and she drops her books and you say srry letme help you, not like that, but something like that.
i would appreciate your answers or tips, theyll be very useful for me. sorry if this post is long and/or is in the wrong category (i didnt know if i should post it in teens or love category) and sorry if my english is bad, im not a native speaker. anyways, thanks in advance!

[pcmaster]

Okay I will help a brother out since you like computers too. Im all about PC hardware and now lately about phones too.

So you can be easly curable. I will give you some short inspiring pickup vids where guys approach girls and then will give you tools to become more like them.

Here is my guide that helps a little
http://www.loveforum.net/the-relationship-news-and-articles/85674-guide-interacting-girls.html

Since you mentioned you are nerd then...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YvBXQsPbQ5w

Also since you think too much your best bet is not to thing. That is dont give yourself time to think - from the moment you see the girl to the monet you talk to her spend less than 3 seconds. 3 seconds rule - if you think more than 3 seconds then negative thoughts comes into your head and robs you from your spontaneous energy. As a result you dont approach.

Normaly you think what if you fail, what bad can happen and how she will react what will be the outcome and what will others think. This all is useless. To be better with girls you need indpendence of outcome - dont care if you win or fail. It will make it so much easier for you. Also social freedom - dont care what others think. When you stop caring about other people that dont matter you are free to do whatever you want even if theres people around. And sure dont thing about negative things. When you imagine what good can happen that gives you energy and drive.

So yeah stop thinking, act on first heartbeat and dont care so much about what others will think and dont care that much about what will happen. Otherwise you are just too much in your head and paralyzing yourself with your fear.
You see man with girls its like that - as sooner you start talking with the girl you find interesting as easier it is. Its just so much better and such.

So if you want be straight to the point then talk with her, say you find her interesting or cute or amazing and say you want to know her better, ask her questions, then ask her FB or number. Later on - same day or next few days message her or call her and talk a little then ask her out on a date. Sure you can ask her out in person too if you have balls, but just in case you cant then easiest way would be messaging on FB and ask her out via message.

Good luck man ! Go and talk to the girl you like !

[Hooo!]

Just tell her that you always wanted to tell her that she is cute (or whatever you think she is. please not use the word "perfect" or "love" or anything like that obviously) and you fancy her and you are so glad that you have finally told her that.

and have a plan ready what you wanted to do with her (i suggest a walk, or a dacing course, or whatever it is you folw do these days thats fun to both of you and something interactive and leaves you free time to get to know each other better)

follow the three seconds rule. The next time you see her just go and do it.
if you are the nerd it doesnt matter. A nerd can count to three.
if she doesnt like you thats fine. You know then she doesnt. If she does its even better.

Sometimes a relationship begins by showing some balls. - Hooo!