please just get a move on. there is nothing to dare.
its like asking "how was your first beer?" or "how was your first movie"
just go grap some popcorn, grab a beer and go to the movies.
How was your first chicken wing?
What are you afraid of? How can you be "near sex"
you either have it - or you dont.
The transition between and the stopping and all that is your homemade akwardness.
How was your first kiss?
Do you like kissing?
what use are those questions?
open a new thread about your mental blockade regarding sexual intercourse and im in.
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.