Originally Posted by
shrah25
Thanks for your post.
This is a really interesting situation you're in...
this is so standard coaching book like. It allways strucks me as odd. While i like your posts I think this whole false thank you for your oppinion thing is just overpsychological talk.
I think it marks the communication out to be too "wanted" i think its not authentic.
its an automatic response to ANY answer you will get.
people could call you a retard and youd go "thank you for your oppinion"
While i agree its important to establish rapport i dont think thats the best way to do it.
And knowing some things about coaching alot its rather one of those things that annoy me.
but thanks for your content. i like that much
on topic:
is there a particular reason for you to not ask him? I do not understand what has kept you from doing it?
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.