I have always dated men based on looks first. Yes I know this is bad. So this guy starts talking to me on a online dating site. Turns out he is the bartender at the pub I was to have my birthday party at. We chatted...text and then 2 days went by and he didnt answer my texts
That made me mad because to me there is no excuse to not answer at some point. So I said to him obviously your joy interested bye now and my thought waa he isnt very good looking anyway so its no loss.
The next night I went to my party and he was working. The waitress told me that he took care of all of my drinks. I thought that was soo sweet! I went to say thank you and give him a hug and he said yeah whatever its no problem happy birthday. He did not look happy.
The next morning I felt so bad! He is obviously a nice genuine guy. I text him an apology, and told him I made a mistake and I want to get to know him. But he is ignoring me I can not stop thinking about this man. Is there anything in particular I can say or do to get him to talk to me? Or is it permanenrly ruined now?