i don't get him

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i've just come out of a year relationship no cheating involved but he is needy emotionally and quite possessive and controlling if allowed however he has major good points just emotional baggage the question is i feel i pushed the break up and he expected me to break down and not let him leave i didn't i wanted him to realise we were being stupid anyway he went i blocked him on all communications however he then proceeded to message my 16yr daughter first asking how she was then asking how i was this has continued over 3 weeks i should add my daughter has ignored references to me and some texts i don't understand he never had to go in the first place if he still wants a relationship why leave

[Hooo!]

i do not understand what your problem is?
do you have to understand every behaviour of everyone?
maybe he just wants to make sure you are ok?
what does it matter?