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    Why did he say this to his ex girlfriend?

    He told his ex that he still loves her and is still in love with her to her face when they were hanging out together. (He was drunk) He also told her that he was talking to someone (me) but he said he doesn't like me and never even wanted to talk to me. (I made the first move when we met) Him and his ex were together for 2 years and it's only been 8 months since they have been apart (seems to me there hasn't really been a no contact period). I found out from a friend of mine she is moving back in town. Anyway he totally disregarded me when he saw her again. Taking her out to dinner, he kissed her, hugged her, came to her as soon as he got off work. I found out they didn't have sex but they were physically affectionate. Am I a rebound? What is up with this guy? Be blunt I need the truth!! Thanks

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    You are for sure a rebound. Guy is not ready for new relationship and not ready to let go old one. Just be blunt with him and make him choose you or her. He already cheated emotionaly so you have rights to leave him right now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by babydoll21 View Post
    He told his ex that he still loves her and is still in love with her and never even wanted to talk to me.
    and you want a blunt honest oppinion?

    no. you want to delude yourself further.
    this is unmistakeable.
    How can you conciously even consider to interpret this in any positive way?

    i dont need to be honest with you
    you need to be honest with yourself.
    If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
    I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
    If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.

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