
Originally Posted by
CleanCut
Since no one on here knows me personally, obviously I know more about myself than anyone else, so you can truly believe me when I say that I do not have any kind of negative attitude or beliefs towards upon first meeting a woman, only when they give me a reason to;
Agreed.
The unconscious mind works the following way: you ask it why you are a good person: it comes up with a list.
you can't remember a name? No problem it will come to you in 10 minutes.
You ask it to notice certain things: no problem. It's gonna tell you every time they pop up
With that beliefs about women you will notice every reason they give you to file them under the declaration "other women"
Every woman gets the same chance with you: a really high chance of proving they are as bad as every other woman you have met.
Instead of enjoying another persons company
Instead of being curious towards their femininity
Instead of making them enjoy their time regardless of how they treat you.
Instead of noticing only the pleasant things about them.
I love women. I adore them and I Ike them around. I like their emotional view of the world that is most often more accurate than the pseudo logical world we men think we exist in. I am curious towards their thoughts and personalities
You could be too
Instead you CHOOSE to notice reasons for you to file them onto the other pile of mindless egoistic bitches.
Which seems a much more promising approach.
I understand how you proceed with women. You are the one with the problems.
Not everyone has the problems you have. So It logically follows that YOU are causing the problems.
If you want to fix them it also logically follows that you need to change behaviour or attitude to get the results you want.
I understand your view. I have been there myself and I'm telling you: your attitude towards women is not helping you.
you have the power to adopt another frame of mind but you won't.
The current frame is not helping you.
You are stubborn about keeping it. I don't see what's in it for you, but I'm sure you see the benefits.
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.