Originally Posted by
sheaintme
How about Im NOT changing that. This is an opinion, she girl says she wants to get to know him on a more personal level. If she don't make her move then she will never know if things will change. YOU don't have to take the advice but don't criticize me for giving her "what she asked for"
you misunderstood me. I asked if there is a special reason for the original poster not to have gone to know him more privately.
i didnt even speak to you, yet criticize you in any way.
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.