+ Follow This Topic
Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 15 of 20

Thread: Girls are out of their fcking mind !

  1. #1
    Join Date
    May 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Latvia
    Posts
    5,054

    Girls are out of their fcking mind !

    So here I am after 30+ days of no PMO and this weeks been busy but today had a lot of free time and felt like coming out of flatline cause urges came back triggered by beautiful girls(my FB friend posted her and her firend pictures) pics on FB. So I felt like I need to do something. Opted for choice to be social and wrote 2 girls on dating site offering to meet. _ No replys despite that we been chatting few sentences today. Then messaged one friend from FB with who been chatting for few weeks and I met her on Tinder. Asked Dont she wanna meet today? And she was like what do suggest? She lives in other city and I know only cinema there so thats what I told her. And she was like - "Why do you suggest cinema for a date and telling that you dont know anything else is a bad flight of fantazy."

    Just feel like fck it, feeling like giving up on girls from internet. They starting act worse than princeses. Just being so determinent and wanting to meet girls but finding just girls that dont want anything and are flakey really kills mood and hope. I now really start to understand guys who are in their thirties, who have given up on girls and accepted life to live alone for the end of the days. Sometimes just too much shit is taken from girls to recover. Even warrior heart can be killed with shit like this.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Nov 2014
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    119
    Oh no! Don't give up on girls! There are plenty of nice sweet kind-hearted girls out there. Just a few b*tches came your way and you want to give up? No! Have some faith;] I understand it's like saying "all men are pigs" after having your heart broken, but they are not all like that and definitely not all girls are like these you've just described. Keep your head up and don't give up;]

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Sep 2013
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    132
    And some guys are too sensitive. I accidentally blew off a guy and he is all hurt and stuff. Men who gets the girl mans up.

  4. #4
    Join Date
    Aug 2014
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    2,175
    I always thought Tinder was the hit for sex site? Does your sister know any nice girls for you?
    “The world would be a nicer place if everyone had the ability to love as unconditionally as a dog.”

  5. #5
    Join Date
    May 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Latvia
    Posts
    5,054
    Quote Originally Posted by lovebroken View Post
    I always thought Tinder was the hit for sex site? Does your sister know any nice girls for you?
    My sister told me to sit alone and stink after I told her this problem with girls.

    Told a friend about girls and he said - live and die with dogs at least they will love you. I told him that dogs need their shit to be collected, but after girls you dont have to collect shit, potty training is great after all. But really I wish girls would stop shitting in my soul.
    Last edited by pcmaster; 03-07-17 at 12:48 AM.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

  6. #6
    Join Date
    Jun 2017
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    346
    I'm sure this is going to show my age, but what is PMO and what did the girl mean by "a bad flight of fantazy"? I also thought that Tinder was an app for casual sex hookups. What kind of girl do you expect to meet from that? Also, chatting on FB is very impersonal. It's easy to just type things.

    I don't think you are looking in the right places.Have you tried legitimate dating sites? What exactly are you looking for in a girl? And I don't agree with totallyomgxo that a man can be too sensitive. It IS hurtful to be blown off, accidentally or not.

  7. #7
    Join Date
    May 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Latvia
    Posts
    5,054
    I been talking about nofap site before and PMO is a term from there - it means Porn Masturbation Orgasm. Im on 36 streak now and plan to reach next goal 60 days, then 90 days and so on. Total long term goal for me is 365 and 500 days without PMO. There a lot of benefits and it really is a healthy chance from sinful lifestyle.

    I really been thinking that tinder is a real dating app. Maybe in US and UK its a app for sex but here I been meeting girls who I think want actually date too not just sex. None of two girls I met on tinder wanted sex on first or second date.

    I dont think dating sites are real place to find a decent healthy thinking girl at all. Just troubled girls and trash. Or girls that will never respond. Really luck is rare there.

    Guys can be sensitive but its a good think as long as you are not sensitive because you are alcoholic or on drugs. We have feelings too and just because we are men doesnt mean we should take shit or dont care. As more man cry as more heart he have.

    P.S. I dont know what that stupid bitch meant with saying - bad fantazy flight. She unfriented me on FB today and didnt even reply my last message. One shit less in my world.
    Last edited by pcmaster; 03-07-17 at 05:24 AM.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

  8. #8
    Join Date
    Jun 2017
    Gender
    Female
    Posts
    346
    LOL. Thanks for the explanation. But guess what? What is nofap site? I think getting rid of porn is a good idea because it is totally unrealistic regarding how a sexual relationship should be and I think very disrespectful and degrading towards women. As far as masturbation, do you regard that as "a sinful lifestyle"? I guess that is a very personal decision. I think my husband would die if he couldn't masturbate.

    You didn't answer my question about what you are looking for in a girl. I guess I can't really comment on dating sites since I am involved and have never used one. Times are different now then they were for me. eHarmony and Match.com seem pretty legit, but I'm just going by the commercials.

  9. #9
    Join Date
    May 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Latvia
    Posts
    5,054
    Nofab site is a website called nofap.com thats dedicated to pmo addicted guys of all ages. Also theres a lot of guys who are in relationship and pm have done damage to their relationship. For example P damages mind and M makes penis unsensitive.

    Those could be good dating sites, but in US. Im from Latvia and only international stuff we have is tinder.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

  10. #10
    Join Date
    May 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Latvia
    Posts
    5,054
    [MENTION=85802]Snow White[/MENTION] if you asking what Im looking for in a girl then firstly I want a lot of communication like chatting and phone calls and someone who keep her word like dont change plans about meeting and actually have time to meet. Im not okay to be in last place for a girl. Want to be important. Also want a girl who dont drinks and preferably dont smokes and to who sex is not important but who can freely talk about it.A girl who like kissing and cuddling.
    Last edited by pcmaster; 05-07-17 at 02:22 AM.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

  11. #11
    Join Date
    Jun 2013
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    342
    Quote Originally Posted by pcmaster View Post
    So here I am after 30+ days of no PMO and this weeks been busy but today had a lot of free time and felt like coming out of flatline cause urges came back triggered by beautiful girls(my FB friend posted her and her firend pictures) pics on FB. So I felt like I need to do something. Opted for choice to be social and wrote 2 girls on dating site offering to meet. _ No replys despite that we been chatting few sentences today. Then messaged one friend from FB with who been chatting for few weeks and I met her on Tinder. Asked Dont she wanna meet today? And she was like what do suggest? She lives in other city and I know only cinema there so thats what I told her. And she was like - "Why do you suggest cinema for a date and telling that you dont know anything else is a bad flight of fantazy."

    Just feel like fck it, feeling like giving up on girls from internet. They starting act worse than princeses. Just being so determinent and wanting to meet girls but finding just girls that dont want anything and are flakey really kills mood and hope. I now really start to understand guys who are in their thirties, who have given up on girls and accepted life to live alone for the end of the days. Sometimes just too much shit is taken from girls to recover. Even warrior heart can be killed with shit like this.
    As you know, I have had the same kind of experiences lately, I took a break from dating for several weeks and am now going to try more in person stuff as apposed to online as I just have not had any luck online lately and I think I ignore more everyday opportunities than I should. Women are nutty, that's a given, but good luck to us both in finding a "mostly sane" girl for us both my friend.
    Life is shorter than you think, so never hold anything back!

  12. #12
    Join Date
    May 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Latvia
    Posts
    5,054
    Thanks for reply man. I really started to understand how you felt after all this shit with girls.

    You are right theres just too much real life opportunities and girls on dating sites are mostly insane, girls with huge problems and so on, yet by all the attention they are getting they get fooled like they are worth something when in fact they are just low quality material.

    Girls out there in real life are in much healthier state of mind. At least I hope so.Once I become confident enough I will go and talk with two girls in shops I wanted to talk for a long time but never had balls yet. Really doing the right thing lately and confidence is building.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

  13. #13
    Join Date
    Jun 2013
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    342
    Yea, I know what you mean and it is tough to find the right moment and method to strike up conversation with strangers; definitely not an easy thing to do without seeming like a creeper to them or something...

    Let's both experiment with this and see if "in person" met girls are any better than the online met ones. I sure hope they are better as well...
    Last edited by CleanCut; 05-07-17 at 10:19 PM.
    Life is shorter than you think, so never hold anything back!

  14. #14
    Join Date
    Feb 2017
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    1,769
    Quote Originally Posted by pcmaster View Post
    My sister told me to sit alone and stink after I told her this problem with girls.

    Told a friend about girls and he said - live and die with dogs at least they will love you. I told him that dogs need their shit to be collected, but after girls you dont have to collect shit, potty training is great after all. But really I wish girls would stop shitting in my soul.
    It's not the girls doing shit to you
    It's you doing the same shit that makes them

    If someone can repeatedly get positive results with the same dating site you use and you can not then chances are you doing it wrong.
    That's what logics and statistics tell us
    If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
    I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
    If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.

  15. #15
    Join Date
    May 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Latvia
    Posts
    5,054
    You could be right because I felt crazy if even my sis turned back on me. Think I need to go on long walks to sort out my mind.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. im so fcking lost
    By Hookahmike in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 10
    Last Post: 03-02-12, 09:56 PM
  2. Help understanding the girls mind
    By awesomeopposum in forum Ask a Female Forum
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: 09-10-11, 10:39 AM
  3. What goes through a girls mind when she says she needs time???
    By jacobandy88 in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 07-06-09, 07:35 AM
  4. Replies: 9
    Last Post: 04-05-09, 05:17 PM
  5. Girls and Mind Games
    By DXX in forum Ask a Female Forum
    Replies: 46
    Last Post: 28-10-06, 01:17 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •