Hi!
I had some dates with a man that used to be my teacher like a month ago, we went out like 5 times. I helped him with his work, then we went to eat something and then we had sex, he asked me to stay with him all the night like 3 times at his house.
But then he went on vacations for two weeks and he told me we would go out when he comes back.
The problem is that I texted him on Saturday and he didn't text me back, today is Monday and he hasn't text me.
We don't text a lot but he said he would ask me out and he hasn't text me.
I really want to see him, I know he probably doesn't want a serious relationship but I want to see him again...
I don't know if I should text him again or if it would look very needy? Maybe I should call him? (I've never called him)
I'm scared he won't text back if I text him again...
While he was on vacations he texted me and wished me a happy birthday and talked to me really nice, so why would he do that and then ignore my text?
PLEASE I don't know what to do, I feel sad and stupid but I really want to see him again...
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18-07-17, 08:34 AM #1
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Should I call him?
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18-07-17, 09:18 AM #2
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His phone might have not been on, or charged or out of range... could be number of reasons. Could he be dating someone now? I wouldn't text again unless he replies because that can annoy someone especially if he did see the other text and ignored it for now. Can you .."accidentally"..run into him in person? That would be best option.
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18-07-17, 09:21 AM #3
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I think it's okay to send a text, but if you REALLY want to talk to him, call him and leave a voicemail message. Texting is a passive form of communication, phone calls are direct. Then wait for him to respond. If you have not heard from him within 48 hours, the case went cold.
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18-07-17, 05:18 PM #4
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Better call. Text might go unnoticed.
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18-07-17, 11:20 PM #5
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Call him or you'll always be wondering!
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19-07-17, 01:04 AM #6
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is he married or in a relationships perhaps?
he is your teacher? what grade are you in?
teachers and students dating and being intimate is a no no. I am not encouraged that this is a good thing for you.
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19-07-17, 05:31 AM #7
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Had idea that guy might be in serious relationship too but didnt mentioned it since it seems OP wants whatever she can get from guy.
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19-07-17, 06:59 AM #8
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Originally Posted by richiro
He is not married, he is not in a relationship (as long as I know) but you are right he could be seeing someone else... He was my teacher last semester, he is not my teacher anymore. Im 24 and I'm studying my last year of medicine
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23-07-17, 03:34 PM #9
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What do you have to lose?
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.
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