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    seperated

    We have been together three years, married for two
    Have a child together. He loves my other three
    I have been really battling depression and he left me... I wasn't nice
    Well.. it's been almost two weeks. He says he doesn't love me... still providing everything we need.. and occasionally sleeps on my couch. He says we are not a match yet he stays for dinner and helps with chores and sleeps on my couch... why? He also leaves before I wake up, but he does work early...

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    It's not going to be easy for both either of you and it's only been 2 weeks and you have a child it's sounds like he's not just just going to abandon you after all you have been through. Have you sought help for your depression? If sees you are willing to make an effort maybe he can recover his feelings for you?
    Life is a blank canvas, lets throw paint all over it

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    I have sought help. This sounds super weird and all... but along with normal help I've dove into fixing my relationship with God... and I have a new peace and calm. He sees the change also...

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    He's doing his duty for the sake of the kids.
    Also, yo udon't just say "its over" and walk out -- it takes time to transition. So.. he's probably in the works of transitioning and putting it into place.
    Today.. divorce is expensive so he may not be interested in divorce but basically living separate lives.

    I'm pretty sure the relationship part of this is over unless you cmpletely revamp yourself and change how you treat him competely and sincerely. Whther it's too late or not only you will know if you are able to revamp.

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    I think for my hearts sake I'll keep myself distant and treat him kindly and with respect. But leave him alone otherwise. Holy hell... the heartache is so intense

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