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    lost.....

    hey guys, kinda new here in this forum. joined here just to share my story and ask for your opinion and suggestions

    i'll try keeping it short so please bare with me

    so the thing is, im going through a really shitty time through my life right now. to start off i want to let u guys know that my younger brother was diagnosed with stage 2 cancer so i got that going for me, parents going through a financial crisis, u guys get the gist. thats just an addition to what im really going through.

    see the problem is i was in a relationship with this beautiful girl. we'll call her as "ex". though it only lasted for 6months. I was the one who broke up with her. She loved me with everything she could offer and show, but i just didn't get the same feeling i get when i'm with this other girl. this "other" girl is a friend of mine in college, i had a crush on her and so i ended up confessing to her and proceeded to court her. i was courting her for almost 3 months as much as i can remember. note that this was before me and "ex" were together. so don't start calling me a F*** boy from the start but then sadly.... i was dumped, friend-zoned whatever u wanna call it. weeks go by after the rejection and a close friend of mine introduced me to a girl, who is now my "ex". we had a pretty good 6 months. i introduced her to my family and they got along well together. but then i realized that i still really like this "other" girl. thats when i started to realize that it was enough playing games with "ex" and end it.
    now only weeks after the breakup i've decided. im gonna give it another shot with this "other" girl. only to end up knowing, she's seeing someone else. and i saw proof of it as i saw the 2 of them together in a nearby cafe.

    and now thats why i joined this forum and post this story. i just wanted to let other people know. feels good man

    let me know if u dont get a part of the story or if theres something more missing i'd be happy to explain

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    Thanks for sharing. Sorry to hear about all the things you are going through. Persevere and you will make it out ok.

    That's why it's important to start a relationship without lingering feelings for another. It really wasn't fair to your "ex" that it ended that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by madotnw_nihs View Post
    Thanks for sharing. Sorry to hear about all the things you are going through. Persevere and you will make it out ok.

    That's why it's important to start a relationship without lingering feelings for another. It really wasn't fair to your "ex" that it ended that way.
    yeah you're right bro. i was in the wrong a 100%

    life's a bitch i guess hahaha

    thanks for the words of comfort though. 'preciate it

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    People make mistakes especially in relationships. I f'd up plenty too, but such is life. Learn from it, pass experience on to others and move on. Good Luck.

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    You are suffering from oneitis
    Google it
    There are cures out there

    You have already given 120% to get this girl? Then she just isn’t worth your time. She doesn’t want you for whatever reasons. And that just means you are not as compatible as you thought

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    Contact Dr. DUGO on E-mail: dugo_d()gmail.com, he has the spiritual charm to make everything right back for you. Trust me

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