Me and my ex were together for 4 1/2 years. In those 4 years we have done everything together. She we planned on getting married but things have been up and down so we decided to move separately and try to work things out. We sold everything we had bought together and each moved to our parents. We have been separate a month and a week. The first 2 weeks we talked every 3 days and still were having intercourse. She said she just needed to figure things out and she would come back to me that I was her soulmate and love of her life. Since then it's been tough we don't talk at all. I messaged her to say hi nd how she has been and her response was she was doing good meanwhile I'm a hot mess. She also told me me that she realized she didnt want a family or be around my kid. Every day I think of how I need to let go but how do you get over someone so quick? How can she be okay so fast?