then you obviously dont and did not ever bother to find out who she really is.
if she wants to be apart from you in order to fulfill her religious dreams (i think thats bullshit personally but here you go) then all you can do is to accept that.
its shit.
all you can do is to whish her luck or to try and find out her reasoning behind it.
and its not all of the sudden like you say
it has been there before you just didnt take it seriously
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.