Hello and Thanks in advance for any advice. Im feeling a great heaviness and mental anguish over a decision i have to make regarding staying in a relationship. I have the best girl in the world in so many many ways and I love her dearly, she loves me, supports me, is honest, kind, hard working, trustworthy, fun, easygoing, has a great figure, and even finds me handsome! I could go on. There is only one problem. I find her face very unattractive and am often turned off by her looks. On top of that she is not aging well and I see this getting more difficult for me with time. I feel disgusting even saying it, but its how I feel when I look at her. You'd think that that would be a deal breaker, but I don't want to leave the relationship. I want to be with her, but how do I get over this issue? Its a problem for many reasons - probably she feels this in little ways and it affects, from purely physical desire, my ability to want to be intimate or to stare in her eyes or make out or feel romance. I know that looks fade and are superficial and I want to get past this, but I just dont know how. Is there a way to accept this situation and truly be happy (both of us)? I dont only want to hear what an ass I am, or that I need to let her find someone who will find her attractive. Maybe that will be the answer in the end, but I want to explore the idea of staying, and how others have dealt with attraction issues like this. Thanks so much.