What's going on??

[AgentZer0]

Hi.. Doubt this is a dumping topic.. But I'll try it here.

6 months ago, I posted a post abt my ex. Yes we broke up and etc. 5 months later.. may 1st, her mom calls me up and talks to me.. tell me things like.. Flowers I gave her on her birthday and on her return trip from China is still kept in her room.. All dead and dried up. V-day past and my ex had like 18 new bouquet of roses/flowers from admirers and exs. I,on the other hand, did not send her any. She threw them all away on day 4. So yeah, I was wondering, what the hell?? New fresh flowers?? Throw it away? So i assume that maybe the flowers i gave her had some meaning to her or something right? So yeah, her mom tells me, that my ex has not gone out much since the break up. She goes to work in the morning, home the next. All being ferried by her parents. This seems odd.. Lately, I was asking around on msn who'd like to go diving and she replied immediately wantin to go on the coming weekend...

Next day, she said she had other plans and cancelled. We'd exchange short smses and calls or chats on msn. Very cold and short replies like "ok" "no" "maybe" "heh" and stuff. Tried to ask her out but she says she's busy. Sometimes yes, but cancel on the last minute. Its confusing.. I admit, I was gettin way much better after 5 months. And now that? What the? I'm so confused. I want to get over her. Yes she was the most special amongst my other exs. Recently, she just came back from a short holiday with her friend. I sent her a new bouquet of roses and her mom says my ex has replaced the old, dead roses in the vase with the new ones and refuse to throw the old ones away.. thus.. now.. I'm just so darn confused... yet.. i just wan to move on.. -_-

[Asip4u]

Her mom called you to tell you these things? Sounds like her daughter isn't moving on. I wouldn't read too much into the stuff about cancelling the diving trip. Even when a girl wants to do something, sometimes she still wonders whether she should or not... Why not take more charge and ask her to do something once again?

[shh!]

I think it is REALLY weird that her mom is calling you. How old are you? Maybe her mom is trying to marry her off (assuming you are of age). That is weird because usually moms are trying to keep the boys away. Are you interested in being with this girl? If not, why would you think of sending her flowers, calling her, etc.? And I have NEVER known anyone to get 18 bouquets of flowers for anything besides their funeral. That part is clearly a lie meant to pique your interest/jealousy so you will come running back. Really, if everthing is as you described, this sounds crazy. (RUN, Forrest, RUN!)

[misombra]

18 bouquets? i didn't even have 18 friends. i don't even have 18 relatives, much less 18 people who are dying to give me flowers on valentine's day. i doubt jennifer lopez gets that many flowers on vday. that is a lie. and it's stupid. the mom is crazy and so is she.

[AgentZer0]

We're both 23 this year. Yes, I do still love her. And 18, assuming it was from all her admirers(which make up to 9?) and her exs & 1fling(4). 5 Was apparently from her "friends". All in all, it all sounds like BS. But the mom makes it sound so real. I refused to believe it all. So I asked my ex's brother who said he only saw 10 which sounded more realistic.

Her mom called me to check out whatever happened to me and her. I stopped goin over and her daughter was suddenly so lonely and cold. Which is sooo damn weird. I'm tired of mind games.