Originally Posted by
GLYC
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You're welcome. Just remember that thing about internet advice as well, when you're desperate you'll look for ANY reason to do something even if it's counterproductive.
You'll find advice for BS apology letters and begging disrespectful lovers to take you back (not directing this at you, just using it as an example), and while that person may boast how much it works, the really is, every situation is different. This could be a woman writing this advice, however, women and men do operate differently with relationships (masculine vs feminine energy). This could be somebody with lots of time and experience with that person, and in some cases, even if the guy does everything wrong, the woman still comes back due to that long bond that they've previously shared. This could be someone writing short term success, Yes, begging her to try it again might have worked at the time of the post, but long term? She probably lost respect for the guy, and if a woman doesnt resoect you, she can never love you.
Sometimes doing nothing is actually the best action! In a lot of cases I actually think it is when you're dealing with people who no longer care, give them the gift of missing you!
Long post, but off topic, just some prime examples. Cheers!