Ok, so I was married about 8 years ago and had a long term affair with another married woman. I left my wife thinking we would be together. She stayed with her husband and I got divorced and moved on with life.
Almost 7 years ago I meet my current wife, and couldn't be happier.
While I was having the affair years ago, my partner that I was having a affair with got pregnant. She told me it was mine, then it wasn't...lied about paternity test ect..
We continued to see each other after she had the baby for a short time..and she got pregnant again and basically told me to never contact her again....
Fast forward to present time ..
I received a call from her at my work saying that both boys are mine and she has contacted child support and wants me to be a part of there lives. I have no problem with being a part of there lives..
The big problem is , my current wife knows I had a affair but doesn't know about the boys ..i have to tell her , but don't know too..how she will take it, ect....out relationship is perfect and I couldn't be happier. Scared I will lose everything
Any advice would be greatly appreciated