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[Heartbroken1970]

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Hello, I am new to this forum. I was in a 20 year relationship that has ended. Our relationship sorta just died. He says he doesn't love me like that anymore. We have everything that a married couple would have including 15 year old twins. It took him leaving for me to realize how much I love this man. He says he doesn't want to be tied down. We both can't afford to live on our own, so he will eventually have to come back here because he can't stay where he is very much longer. He says he doesn't want anyone and doesn't have anyone. I am trying hard to let go, but it's so hard. How can I make him want me again?

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If he doesn’t want no matter what you do
Then the obvious answer is: at this point in time you can’t

I guess that you have told him what you have told us already?
I guess that you are making yourself sexy for him and trying to be his woman still?

All you can do is being persistent in changing his mind without being clingy or pushing