I have been seeing this girl for roughly 4 weeks, she message’s me instantly all the time. we’ve kissed and slept together, she even confessed to one of my house mates on New Years that she really liked me but apparently didn’t want to say to me because she was scared it might ruin things. last time I took her home it was like she didn’t want to get out my car and kissed me a lot when she got out and texted me first after.
What plays on my mind and confuses me though, is when we make plans something sometimes comes up, in her life that we can’t go. My gut tells me she’s not telling the truth sometimes. This has happened before and after we’ve had sex so it’s not a sudden thing.
My thought process is she’s scared to get to attached thinking I don’t feel the same way.
Or
She’s not actually that interested and she’s stringing me along
Or I’m just seriously over thinking it
And I need to know how to react, what’s your thoughts?