I still did not understand why this guy I love left me suddenly

[jesusjoie]

Hello. There's a guy who added me on facebook 3 months ago and started chatting with me. I was very stiff at the beginning and told him I'm married and don't usually chat with guys. He kept on telling me that I'm a great woman and he likes me a lot and he wants to be with me and he used to ask me questions related to sex and so on. He took my number and started chatting with me on whatsapp and we were chatting always and he was telling me great things all the time like I love you... I thought all was real and I fell in love with him too. I spent 2 great months with him and he seemed very honest. Then I saw him for the first time, he even fell in love with me more and started pursuing me more and agreeing when he will see me next time and when we will make love. I was becoming more and more in love with him and attached to him. Then the next time he saw me, all changed. He became distant suddenly and stopped texting like before. Then when I asked him what's wrong he told me: I love you but not as much as you love me. You are an amazing woman and I don't want to hurt you. I just want you to be happy. I like talking to you as friends. I was very sad and still till now very sad. He still texts me everyday to ask me how my day was, but of course, I feel he is a different person now. I never understood what happened. But it hurts a lot...

[madotnw_nihs]

So he befriended you to have sex with you. Now that he's got it, I think he is moving on.

[jesusjoie]

Thx a lot for your quick reply. I really need a lot of support during this time as I'm so sad.
Actually, we didn't have sex. We didn't even kiss. He became a different person when we met the second time. Though he liked me a lot the first time he saw me.
By the way, I forgot to mention that he used to ask sometimes for private pics but didn't accept.
I feel very sad and down and I lost confidence in myself as I feel he thought he liked me the first time then he changed his mind.
What to do now to make him like me again?

[pcmaster]

I think problem is that you are married and he didnt felt like hes as much important to you as you are to him since you have husband.

[jesusjoie]

Thx for your reply. Yes maybe. Actually, he always asked me if I love him more than my husband and he asked me to stop sleeping with my husband as he is jealous. He also was jealous of my husband's friends when they used to come for a visit. He used to tell me you are only mine. And he was always talking about he can't wait to be with me in bed and so on, and that he wants me so bad. But suddenly when I saw him last time I felt he changed and became so different. I felt disappointment on his face. Maybe he was lying all the time just to sleep with me and then he doesn't want anymore when he saw that I'm so pure. Cz he told me:" I love you but not as much as you love me. Plz all I want is for you to be happy and live your life, go out with your friends, you are a very sad person and you are unfair to your life. You are an amazing woman that every guy dreams to be with, but you should give yourself a chance. I don't like to hurt you, you are great. Plz don't get too attached to me, for your sake." So I told him why are you doing this and so on, why you changed. Block me if you don't want me, I can't live this way, you hurt me a lot. He said no I love to always talk to you as a friend.
Now he still says hi almost everyday and ask me about my day. It hurts