I have people I have met who I am interested in getting to know better, because I think they are cool and we have things in common. I also want to increase my social life, as my husband is not really a conversationalist and spends most of his time on video games.
When it comes to hanging out and getting to know other men, what is the best way to ask them out for a coffee, but make it obvious that it's not a romantic date?
If they already know I'm married and I say "Would you like to go out for a coffee together?" will they automatically know I am only looking for friendship?