Me and John started dating a month ago and decided to take a step further and have sex. We ended up having a lot of foreplay but then he stopped saying he was too tired and we fell asleep. The next morning we started foreplay again and again he stopped.
He said he was too nervous about having sex with me because he really likes me. So we end up not having sex at all.
Later he said sorry to me about it and that he really wants to have sex with me next time we are together. I asked him if there is something else about it that he is not telling me, and he said that no, that there's nothing wrong physically or emotionally.
That he spent lots of days thinking about having sex with me and wanting it to be perfect, and that anxiety started to build up and he got really nervous which prevented him from becoming hard.
I've had other sexual partners in the past and this never ever happened, so I'm quite confused.
Is it possible he might be telling the truth and in that case what can I do, or is it possible that he might have some physical/emotional issues that he is not telling me about?
I just wish to know if he might be telling the truth and this happens with men. He also said that he is usually like that on the first time with someone, but then overcoming that first time, he's not nervous anymore.
Thank you for your help.