Need help on couple of things on exclusivity and maintaining contact

[lioil]

So i have been dating this girl for 1.5 months, i recently asked her to be my gf and she said yes. We are both ~30. I have some questions about moving forward though:

1. Exclusivity might be too soon and not sure she understands the concept either (she only been in states ~ 5 years). Should i wait for her to bring up or try to bring it up myself? We held hands couple of times but havent kissed.

2. She doesnt text that much, maybe reply a few things from me here and there - is that an issue? Not for me but not sure if thats a sign of something/anything?

3. She is going back to her home country for 2 weeks vacation, how should i approach contacting her without being annoying/needy? We have 12 hr difference and she will be hanging out with friends/families...

4. How should I go to the next stage with her to go for kiss? I was thinking maybe go on ferris wheel but that might be trapping her though... her drop off point is also very bad. Basically her place doesnt have any parking spot and i drop her by the curb and she kinda hops off...

5. My friend is trying to hook me up with another girl -since i am not in exclusive relationship is it fair game? Should i even risk bringing this up to her? I was thinking saying something like a joke- " so my friend is trying to introduce me to this other girl - I want to tell him i am exclusive with you, what do you think?"

Overall i really enjoy her company. We have similar hobbies. She is probably a little shy so if theres any contact/advance i would need to make a move...

Thanks!

[Hooo!]

Either you or I are a little disturbed
Normally a girlfriend is a person you have sex with regularly? At least in my reality and if there are no reasons speaking against that

So I am confused if she said she is your girlfriends and you are holding hands

You sound more like. 13 year old teenager to me than an adult who knows what he is doing.

Put a hand lovingly on her hair and then at the side of her neck
If she doesn’t shy back it is acceptable to kiss her
If you then physically advance and meet no resistance it is safe to assume that you may have sex with each other. You may verbally ask
I wouldn’t

[DalM0m]

At 1.5 months the fact that you haven't even kissed but are in your 30s tells me that you two are on a page I don't understand. Do consider ending your next date with a kiss goodnight. I'm not talking about a tonsillectomy here but you have to break that physical barrier. On the date after that tell her you are not dating others & that you hope she is not either. Ask her how she feels about exclusivity. Then talk about how you will keep in touch while she's away & adhere to that plan.

[lioil]

At 1.5 months the fact that you haven't even kissed but are in your 30s tells me that you two are on a page I don't understand. Do consider ending your next date with a kiss goodnight. I'm not talking about a tonsillectomy here but you have to break that physical barrier. On the date after that tell her you are not dating others & that you hope she is not either. Ask her how she feels about exclusivity. Then talk about how you will keep in touch while she's away & adhere to that plan.

she is pretty traditional unamericanized so not as quick as westerners. How do i go for the kiss when i drop her off? after i park she just leaves and there's really no way for me to get out of the car...

And any tips on maintaining contact while she is on vacation?

[pcmaster]

Well, man, then kiss her at the beginning of the date. Harder but possible. If you never kissed then it might be hard but just do it.

1,5 months and never kissed? How many times you met then and how many hours have spent altogether?

I think you should talk to her about how she understands the word being exclusive. Also, tell her how you understand it. Then you can agree on something.

While she is on vacation, drop her a text every second or third day. This way you won't be too needy.

[DalM0m]

Get out of the car & open the car door for her.

You maintain contact while she's away the same way you keep in touch while she's here: phone, text, social media, possibly skype or facetime. If cost is an issue download WhatsApp for you both