She sounds very insecure and she might be projecting, i.e. she's cheating on you. A deep insecurity like this is usually the death of a relationship, you cannot fix her, and these people normally don't want to do any work to fix it. I say find someone else, you deserve better.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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