Originally Posted by
GLYC
Exactly. The thing is, most people don't take action, I've been there as well, on both spectrums.
You really do need to make your exterior a reflection of your interior.
I'm not saying you need to be "jacked", or anything. But some basic exercise, and eating right a good amount of the time will do wonders.
I know people that mope around and complain about everything. Career, their body, their life, etc but they never take action. You have to participate in your own rescue. It takes discipline, and doing things that you don't want to do, but it's totally worth it. When you're proud of yourself and your accomplishments you will show off a different vibe.
In fact, I would argue most people just give up in life, meaning, they settle on all aspects of life.
They get into relationships with people just because it's "going okay", they work a job just because it pays the bills even though they hate it intensely, they hate their appearance but think going to the gym is too much work.
Yet on the flip side, I see single dad's that are in great shape, go back to school to pursue their dreams, etc. That find great women.
I'm not trying to bash anyone, but it's just things that I've noticed in my own life experiences.
I firmly believe that women are a supplement to an already great life. If you're unhappy with your life, introducing a great woman to it will only give you temporary satisfaction, eventually once the honeymoon period phases out, and you're back to a routine life, you'll once again be unhappy.