Originally Posted by
Throwaway97
I'd be lying if I said I dont feel guilty. But on the other hand I still do it. We have been having sex behind his back for about 4 months every other day. She tells me everything about them. How sex with him is awful. Which I knew already because he asked me what he should do about it. I gave him good advice. I guess it didn't change anything. The sex with her is amazing. I think it's how taboo it is. We're all over each other. She wants a relationship with me and there's no way in hell that's going to happen. She thinks that I'm in love with her and that we will be together. She talks about us running far away together. All I have to do is say the word. I'm a big believer in "once a cheater, always a cheater". But she seems to be in love with me. My gut is telling me shes in love with me. My gut is never wrong. I guess I'm doing both of them wrong. I know he uses reddit so I'm not going to give all the details. I also want to add that I still respect the guy a whole lot. I would hate to lose his friendship Only a handful of people know.. I know I should stop but the sex is just so addicting.??
This all stems from a lack self discipline, which is a moral deficiency.
That's really all there is to this situation.
As far as your respect of this guy, the way you treat him puts your statement to the lie. No one who respects another person would plant such a knife between his shoulder blades like this.
People treat you the way they feel about you
If you choose to remain with someone who doesn't treat you well, you cease being the victim and become the volunteer.
~Derrick Jaxn -- look him up