I have been talking to this guy for two months now and i am more on the listening side as this guy feels like he can tell me anything in the world and I will just listen but recently I realised that he liked to talk about his wild ideas of destroying a group of people he hates because of what they have done to his extended family and he keeps sharing this wild imaginations that has made me feel uncomfortable to respond and which by my principle I will not encourage. We like each other very much and I know he will not do these things in reality but his trend of thoughts on being violent towards these bad people is making it difficult for him to talk about anything else and he even wants me to support his conversations by encouraging it and sharing my ideas of what violent actions can be done towards these people. I am a peace loving person and he seems to have said that it will be a deal breaker between us if I don't allow or support him with this trend of thoughts that he has because i also believe that one thoughts will always influence ones action and I cannot imagine what he is capable of doing if he feels the impulsion to do something dangerous or to inflict harm to these bad people. He has already hurt himself when he saw the news one day and got so angry that he injured his own finger.
I have asked him to leave me alone for a few days as I am really sad that he chose to place his preference to have this kind of conversation over me and wanting me to decide whether to give in to this behavior or not.
What should I do when I don't wish for this to be the reason for us to part ways when we have so far liked everything else about each other? I have made more effort than him to show how much i like him and care for him that i feel he has not learned the art of impressing a woman and made this idiotic request to ruin it all.