What Is your biggest pet peeve about Guys?

[meloveu]

We all have pet peeves but ladies, what are your biggest pet peves about guys?... I'll start the forum with " When He is ignorant and still has mommy doing his laundry and heicopter daddy managimg his finances." I feel like a hater but until the umbilical cord is cut, I feel that not yet a man.

[cocacola]

Guys that aren't loyal

[pcmaster]

Guys who watch porn, jerks off and then talks shit to real girls.

[My Coffee Cup]

Helicopter Daddy? I'll have to Google that one. Is a sweetie wife a woman who thinks she is important?

[DalM0m]

It's hard to generalize. With everyone I have ever dated, maybe even know, there are traits that irk me but I am equally sure I bug other people too.

I really can't think of something universal that bugged me about all guys. Now specific ones, let's see. I don't care for the fact that my husband is not a planner. My EX couldn't hold a job. The guy before that used to clean everything & I mean everything, the counters, the kitchen floor, with bath towels.

[pcmaster]

The guy before that used to clean everything & I mean everything, the counters, the kitchen floor, with bath towels.

LOL you girls are funny. At least he didn't wipe his crack after toilet with a towel lol.

[CantMoveOn]

When they are lying, cheating, selfish, spoiled, using sons of bitches.

[DalM0m]

When they are lying, cheating, selfish, spoiled, using sons of bitches.

But see women can be like that too. It's not a trait universal to one gender.

[cocacola]

LMAO - exactly cantmoveon. Its funny I hear from women all the time about the not being a planner thing. That is irritating, last minute plans. I cant stand that either. Selfish is a GOOD one- selfish and cheap.

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LMAO - exactly cantmoveon. Its funny I hear from women all the time about the not being a planner thing. That is irritating, last minute plans. I cant stand that either. Selfish is a GOOD one- selfish and cheap.

I thought of another one. A man thats in his 40s and still lives with mom.

[GLYC]

Planning is a problem.

I was always pretty notorious about leaving plans up in the air, aka, the classic, calling up a woman, reserving a date/time, and calling her a week later with the actual plans. I'm pretty sure women hate that.

But, with planning. It does get kinda exhausting. Especially if you're trying to actually go to nice places.
And going to new places. I used to make sure every date I went on was to a place I had never been before with any other woman.

The problem, is it's like, trying to find a nice place, but it can't be too busy or you can't talk, but it has to have a decent menu but you don't want to have a $100 tab on someone you're still getting to know, but what else is there to do nearby? Dates with going to multiple locations is fun. Okay, what hours are they open until? How busy is it there? Etc.

It really is a lot of work. Lol

[smackie09]

Awkwardness/insecurity. I like a man that is confident....not a pompous jerk, just someone that can socialize and be comfortable around people and me. With confidence in himself, it eliminates a lot of the other negative crap.

[lovebroken]

I always hated when the men I dated couldn't stand up for me in any situation whether it be with friends, family, strangers. basically, cowards in my eyes whereas I could easily stand up and for whomever, I was dating. Huge turnoff.

[bunnyhabit]

bragging about sex with me to friends too much

[GLYC]

I always hated when the men I dated couldn't stand up for me in any situation whether it be with friends, family, strangers. basically, cowards in my eyes whereas I could easily stand up and for whomever, I was dating. Huge turnoff.

Just kind of random, but it correlates to this.

I read that men that don't stand up for themselves against women that they're dating/involved with that mistreat them, typically turn them off because of this. Women instinctively know that if you won't stand up against her when she's mistreating you, that you won't stand up for her if other trouble exists.

I thought it was interesting but it totally makes sense.

[lovebroken]

No, I am not talking about previously browbeaten men, I am talking strongly opinionated guys who can stand up for everything, their friends included but somehow can't manage to do it for the women they claim to love, like and are dating. It's frustrating. I've had 2 of these men as partners.