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    How to meet my friends littlesister?

    Hi,

    I am usually very shy, thinking what other are thinking of me and like to play video games a lot. I have never dated, even though girls have shown interests in me throughout the years.
    But my friend's little sister sent me a snap on Valentine day (3 months ago) that she wanted me to come over her place (she meant it between the lines) because her brother was drinking with some friends. I did not answer.. And she has shown interest in me in other occations, like she wanted me to drive her home from school but I said I do not have a car, because it was my family's. We still hold the snap streak. Just saying "good night" and so on.

    In the last days, I constantly think of her. When I am about to sleep and she comes in my dreams. I get a kind of sad and thoughts of regret, some how. We only communicate via snap.
    Is it too late to try to meet her? How am I going forward?
    Last edited by maximus1; 22-05-18 at 04:06 AM.

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    I'd talk to your friend first personally. Could also be a,potentially ad thing if you get together and things end south.

    The one concern I have is that you haven't dated, which, really isn't that big of a deal as long as you are a centered individual.

    How to go forward, be direct and decisive. "Well should meet up for coffee, when are you free to get together? "

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    My friends are also concerned. But ask her for coffee and going forward like that sounds a little scary. Is it no other way?
    Last edited by maximus1; 23-05-18 at 09:32 PM. Reason: wrong grammar

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    Okey R.I.P. I wrote Good night on snap and she did not answer. 65 snap streak will probably disappear soon and so the spark/friendship, just because I'm too scared.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maximus1 View Post
    Okey R.I.P. I wrote Good night on snap and she did not answer. 65 snap streak will probably disappear soon and so the spark/friendship, just because I'm too scared.
    Just ask her for her number, and call her. When she picks up, "Hey we should meet up for coffee, when are you free?"

    If she's wishy washy, just say "let me know when you're free or if you change your mind"

    Then just stop. Women will make it easy if they like you. If she doesn't give you a positive response, don't waste your time.

    Whether you're nervous or not, just keep practicing with women, hone your skills so when you do meet someone great, you're 100% ready for anything she can throw at you.
    Last edited by GLYC; 24-05-18 at 06:09 AM.

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    This all sounds "made up" to me. A "Jerry Springer" style Troll Post created just for fun to see what kind of reactions it gets. A forum version of "click bait".

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    It is true though. I had to find a tempting title, which is not far from truth.

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    If you were smart you go see a therapist for your anxiety. When you get treated all this stuff you fear won't be an issue. You will be able to have a normal life with normal relationships like everyone else.

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    Sure theraphy could help but that would be the most expensive route. Cause of the problem is video games and low confidence.

    So cheaper would be stop playing games, quit porn and masturbatinon(nofap.com forum) and just take nature theraphy - spend time in nature to heal the soul and get rid of addiction to video games. ALso could pick up some sport - preferaly social out in the fresh air. Or just go to gym regulary and interact with people there.

    yeah dating can be scary but once you survive first date then fear goes away and you can easy get on a roll and become a dating machine.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

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