My bestfriends boyfriend has been making post on facebook saying he’s “feeling nervous” lately and recently He shared a post of a picture of a guy and a girl looking at fireworks on the 4th of July and it said “How I want my 4th of July to be” ang his caption on Facebook was “7 days 🤫.”
now she assumes he’s gonna propose right after that he shared another “feeling nervous” post on Facebook along with a relationship meme saying “happily ever after doesn’t happen effortlessly, Relationships need working on.” A month ago and even before that he was still making sexual advances at his ex who he ended things with when she found out he was messing around with my best friend on the side.
From what my friend told me he ended things with his ex it In a pretty rude way too. She saw the picture my friend tagged him in of him and her, confronted him about it and in the beginning he lied and said they were just friends. He ignored her for days, but eventually told her to never call or text him again and that he was done with her and he told her to stop messaging his girl (my bestfriend) when she messaged her asking for the truth about them.
My best friend was pretty rude about it as well. She laughed at how his ex was crying to him about how he could do that to her knowing she experienced a lot of her first, sexually, with him. My friend was with him the whole time the altercation between them had went down.
I’ve been trying to let my best friend know he isn’t for her because of how they started dating and because of what he has done with his ex and probably still does with other girls but she doesn’t listen.
They have been in Memphis living with his biological mom since May, before that they were playing hosue at her moms house in Chicago and now he may or not be planning to propose and neither one are ready for that and she’s only 18 and he’s 23, 24 in December. Any advice?