Need Help!!!

**swensonj43** · 28-06-05, 10:40 AM

I recently met the most amazing girl ever. But I found out that she has had plans to move back to Alabama. I know she is the one for me, and I would do almost anything I can do be with her. The problem is is that I am a cop in MN, and it would be a huge jump to start over and earn my license in Alabama. Her family is from MN, but she had been living in Alabama for 2 years where she has alot of friends. When I told her how I felt about her, she seemed very excited, and said she was going to talk to one of her guy friends who lives in Alabama to see what she should do because he knows her really well. Well the next day she calls me and tells me she is moving back. I know its not cause of him since he is engaged, but I dont know what to do. I know she is the one. What do I do, she is planning on leaving in 2 weeks.....HELP

**whaywardj** · 28-06-05, 11:19 AM

Relocate, officer. Relocate.

**true_love** · 28-06-05, 11:20 AM

Take a deep breathe. Relax. I would recommend becoming friends first before trying to making an attempt to convince her to stay. Is it in her best interest to leave? Does she know how you feel about her? How long have you known her? The reason I ask is because I am going through the same scenario you are at the moment. I'm preparing myself to understand that she is only going to be around for another month in my case. I'm trying not to wrap myself up in the emotions but its really difficult. She is moving to New Mexico for school. I'm so wrapped up in thinking about her I can hardly stand it much less the thought of her leaving permanently. What is her interest level? Let me know how this ends up because I have no idea how I'm going to handle this situation either.