So, I have a situation I'm curious to hear your thoughts about.
I matched with a guy on an app and we started chatting. The conversation flowed and from the pictures I thought he was very attractive.
Normally, I would have cut to the chase and gone out on a date with him, but apparently he lives in Bermuda 50% of the time (I'm in NYC) so that's tricky. He did invite me over as a joke but frankly I like for first dates to be within my neighborhood. I would have cut it off there but we switched to WhatsApp and the conversation is really interesting. We seem to have a few interests in common (meditation, traveling, mythology, tango, reading etc) so he's very easy to chat with and we did video call about 6-8 times now and there's some weird chemistry ("weird" because I have never actually met this guy).
There's no way I will go over to Bermuda, and this will probably just fizzle out on its own, but I'm curious. What's in it for the guy? Do you think he just chats with me because he'd bored? The conversations are not about sex, but since it doesn't look like we're ever going to actually meet, what is he thinking?
Just curious to know if anyone has been in this situation before and why. I don't have any expectations (or at least I'm telling myself that haha).